Take Life with a Grain of Zen by H.J. DeBoy is indeed "a refreshing out
look on the day-to-day" as the secondary title of the book says. It reminds
me of Paulo Coelho's Warrior of the Light as the writer strives to push
the reader forward.
I cannot critique Take Life with a Grain of
Zen based on characters and plot because the main character of this book is
the Reader. The book consists of short prose pieces of advice along with
quotes, bits of wisdom, ancient sayings and occasionally some poetry – though I
have to stress that this book is not a poetry collection.
J. R. R. Tolkien once said "All we have to decide is what
to do with the time that is given us.” Or as in this case 'all we have to decide is
what to do with the words we read in this beautiful book'.
The book opens with a quote and a beautiful and realistic poem that I believe everyone
can feel and understand and that many have undergone this stage of dying and
getting ready to be reborn into their worlds and lives.
Then there is the piece: "Be the sunshine that warms the lonely
heart./ Be the cool breeze that soothes the pain of grief./ Be the clear water
that quenches the wounded soul./ Give what you would like to receive./ Each day
will be that much more beautiful."
These
five lines are all it takes to make you feel happy and ready to live again. I
particularly loved the line "Be the clear water that quenches the wounded
soul." The word "quenches" is powerful and perfect for
"wounded soul".
The book has so many memorable lines, images and
pieces of advice that I wish I could quote it all!
Take Life with a Grain of Zen is a book for all ages
and all times. There are lines, which you just cannot help but admire and there
are others that inspire you to remove all the negativity from your life and
aspire to peacefulness and serenity since that is what 'being Zen' is all
about. DeBoy knows that 'being Zen' is not an easy task but still shows you
many ways by which you, the Reader, can bring comfort, peace and happiness into
your life.